Relationships : Gold remains gold

Relationships are what make us social animal. Weather it is friendship,envy, neighborhood,marriage or anything else. We feel socialized by these relationships.

Different types of people come in life, they teach something and stay or leave. I am specifically talking about the relationship of love. Of course,my this article can be accordingly considered for other types of relationships also.


In most of the love stories, what happens is that at the end of the story,the lovers meet,live together and enjoy the life. This is a typical novel like story. But in life, there are other stories also.

Either the guy cheats with the girl or the girl cheats with him. I should rather say they just change their feeling for each-other because of one or other reasons.

Here the problem arises! If the guy changes his feelings, the girl may accept the reality and decide to move on. This is the step where the girl’s mind starts asking question “Whom to trust and whom to not?” It’s a very natural mental state where question arises.


When I look back and analyse the people and the relationships of people, I find one very common thing in all those relationships which decided who will remain attached and who will not. That common deciding feature is the TIME. Yes, it is the time.

The real gold never looses its shining with the passage of time but,the fake gold does. The time shows the difference between real and fake gold metals.

If we consider a true lovely relationship as a golden relationship, then both the people have to be real gold. If either of the two changes the feeling with the passage of time, the relationship does not remain golden.

We people are like these metals. When given some significant time, we show our true metal colours. Those whose metal colours don’t change are the true ones.

So,give some time, a little more time and you will yourself decide whether to trust or not.


“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
― Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed Devil


About Bhagyesh Pathak

Traveller, Reader, Rationalist, Biotechnologist, Science communicator. An avid learner of new things. Enjoys reading books, blogging, gazing at sky, working on hobby electronics projects, practicing Guitar chords and watching movies. An advocate of skill-development for everyone and immediate-renaissance in the field of education. Supporter of Mars Colonization by humans (Our Next Giant Leap)
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